As an adoptive parent, I get SO sick & tired of people telling me how "good we are for taking in our girls", or how "they're so lucky", or ask me ridiculous questions like "why didn't their real moms want them?". I even had someone (an adult, mind you) ask me if Sophie knew karate when she came home at 13 months of age. What?!?!?!? How stupid can a person be? Now I ask you, would ANYBODY say those kinds of things to a woman who gave birth to her kids? I think not!
I am typically very nice to people who ask me such rude questions or make such ridiculous remarks because I always assume that they're too ignorant to know better, but
no more.....
Be forewarned world----- the next person who utters a peep of some rude or insensitive adoption remark will be laid out cold. Yes, that's right. I will put the smack down on them. Maybe I would never actually hit someone, but I am not too decent to be an utter bi@#h! Got it? Good!
Natural Child: a child who's not artificial
Real Parent: a parent who's not imaginaryYour Own Child: a child who doesn't belong to someone else
Adopted Child: a natural child, with a real parent, who's all my own
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